Lies and deception

I hate it when people lie to me. Especially if it's right straight at my face. I guess this is another of my pet peeves. Yes, I can understand a white lie. But a blatant lie right straight at my face? No. The moment I detected it, I'm sorry, but off you go. No bargaining, no explanations needed.

On another note, sometimes I wish people would be more empathetic with others. Try to understand what others are going through, instead of just criticizing or condemning them. Personally, you'll never hear me criticizing about something unless I have been in and dealt with that same kind of situation before. Everyone does certain things for a reason. We should never judge others based on just what is seen by our eyes. It's not fair. Sometimes, we wouldn't know what is going on inside that other person. How is he/she feeling? We can never know because we are not inside them to share that feeling. One life's lesson that I have had is never to assume. As they say, it'll just make an ass out of you and me. Instead, try to put yourself in other people's shoes. Try to feel what they are going through. If you feel that it hurts you, then it'd probably hurt the other person too.


I need to toughen up.